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Trantic Masseuse Lily - Erotic and Tantric Massage

On this page, you’ll learn just what to expect from our session together. Surprises can be nice, but I find that many of my clients are looking for something very particular to satisfy their innermost sexual desires. To help you decide whether or not my Tantric massage is right for you, read on to find out the techniques I’ll be using during the session, and how long each part will last. I hope that it matches up with your dream massage session, and that by the time we reach the happy ending, you’ll be just about ready to explode with pleasure!

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1- Namaste

I find that the best way to start a Tantric massage is with a “Namaste ritual”, to welcome each other and show out mutual respect. Before we begin, I ask that you take a thorough shower, because I will be touching every inch of your body. Once the ritual is complete, I will then unwrap your towel, sit you down on the bed in front of me, and then sit between your legs as I slowly undress, revealing my body and breasts to you.


2- Breathe together (Bliss breath)- 5 minutes

Focusing on breathing together is one of the most important parts of Tantra, and the reason why we say that Tantra is the true path to intimacy. Just think- when have you and your lover ever given yourselves over to each other so fully that you even share in this most fundamental aspect of your body?

It’s more than just breathing in and out, though. Bliss breath is a special technique designed to make you feel so much closer to your partner. This helps you to have a much deeper tantric experience. To try bliss breath for yourself, lightly constrict the back of your throat, and take long, slow, deep breaths through your nose. This helps you to feel more aware of your body, so that you will really appreciate what I’m doing together. We will inhale and exhale together as I caress your chest with a feather-light touch, and I ask that you also gaze deeply into my eyes.

Intimacy is about more than just stripping off your clothes and jumping into bed with each other. Even during sex, you might still be holding yourself back from true intimacy. They say that the eyes are the windows to the soul, and in my experience, that is certainly true. So, try to hold eye contact with me both during this exercise and throughout your Tantric massage. It might feel uncomfortable at first and, sure, you might even giggle from the awkwardness, but it feels so good once you get into it.

Prolonged eye contact during sex lets both partners see deep within each other. When people close their eyes during intimacy, they are usually overthinking about their won own pleasure, and may even be fantasising about something else entirely. On the other hand, eye contact helps you feel fully connected to your own body, as well as your partner’s- it makes for a much deeper and more intimate experience.


3- Kegel exercise, 5 minutes

Next, we will practise the Kegel exercise. Kegel is an ancient Tantric milking technique, which helps to give you more control over you pleasure, and releases the sexual energy through your second chakra, also known as the “sexual chakra”. The exercise might seem complicated at first, but don’t worry- I will guide you through it, and show you a simple way of completing the technique.

Doctors explain it this way: while your penis itself isn’t a muscle, it is surrounded by other muscles, which are collectively known as the pelvic floor muscles. While many people think Kegel exercises are just for women, but men can strengthen these muscles through simple contractions. It’s easy to identify these muscles- just try to stop urinating halfway through, and the muscles that you’re contracting are the pelvic floor muscles. Kegel exercises involve holding these muscles for five seconds, then releasing them for five seconds, repeating this process multiple times.

Tantra is all about delaying your ejaculation for as long as possible. Kegel exercises help to cure erectile dysfunction, and combined with my gentle hand techniques, will ensure that your Tantric massage is a long and pleasurable one.


4- Swedish deep sportive massage- 30 until 40 minutes

Once I’ve got you fully prepared with the bliss breath and Kegel exercises, I’ll then ask you to lie on your stomach, or wherever you feel the most relaxed. It might be more comfortable to place a pillow under your head and stomach. I will then give you a sensual full body massage, from the top of your head all the way down to the tip of your toes. I prefer to use coconut oil, because it smells and feels great, and is good for your skin, too. However, if you are allergic to coconut oil, please let me know beforehand and I can use a different oil.

At this point in the session, you will discover for yourself just how relaxing a Tantric massage can be- you’ll be completely comfortable in your mind, body, and soul. Once this massage is complete, you’ll be ready to experience some very sensuous touches…


Erotic Masseuse Lily - Tantric and Erotic Massage

5- Scratch and pressure massage: 10 minutes

Next, I will gently scratch and touch your back all over, using a variety of different techniques and pressures. This helps to get your body even more sensitive, so you will enjoy what’s to come all the more. Don’t worry, no marks will remain on your body afterwards. If you are ticklish, then let me know and I can skip this section.


6- Stimulate the sacred spot externally- 10 minutes

In Tantra, the Sacred Spot is the prostate- a walnut-sized gland located between the bladder and the penis. While most men aren’t even aware of it, when stimulated properly, it is incredibly pleasurable for most men. This is where the massage starts to get much more intense, and you will soon find your whole body is filled with pleasure.

During the massage, I will stimulate and tease you externally- I massage through the outside without penetration. I work around your anus area, so it’s essentially that you’re thoroughly clean for this part of the massage to take place. I look for the Sacred Spot as an indentation, somewhere between the size of a pea and a walnut, midway between the testicles and the anus. I’ll gently work and tease the prostate, and you’ll discover a world of pleasure that you’ve missed out on up until now. If you’re very good, then I may even tease your Sacred Spot with my breasts…


7- Lingam massage & nipple teasing massage- at least 30-40 minutes

While the massage up until now has taken place lying on your front, I will now flip you over to begin the Lingam massage- an extremely hot and sexual massage where I lubricate and massage around the penis and shaft. “Lingam” means a representation of the Hindu god Shiva- but while you might think that are holy have to be pure and chaste, Lingam can even include the penis. Now you can see why Tantra is so special- it really does mean worship of the male member! I know just how to keep you erect for at least 30 minutes, even if you’ve had premature ejaculation issues in the past. For those who experience erectile dysfunction, then don’t worry- I’ve got plenty of tricks up my sleeve that will have you rock hard in no time. Keeping my eyes and attention firmly fixed on you, I will keep you at the very edge of orgasm, but don’t let you climax. During the session, you will learn Lingam massage yourself, so that you can practise edging yourself via masturbation when you’re alone.

I know that you’ll want to know all about how I perform the Lingam massage- it’s certainly a very exciting process. Well, while I don’t normally give away my secrets, here goes…


I start sat between your legs. I take some of my special oil, pour it into my hands, and let it flow onto your belly, or directly onto the Lingam. I prefer to use coconut oil, because it just smells so yummy. Next, I slide my hands up and down your thighs to make you feel more relaxed, before getting to the good stuff.

I’ll then start to oil the shaft of your penis, fully lubricating the whole area. I then move onto the testicles- this can be a sensitive area, but don’t worry, I’ll be gentle. I slowly massage them, and depending on what you are comfortable with, I can gently use my fingernails on your testicles, or pull them ever so gently. I can also cup them in my hand, and fondle them in the palm of my hand. I’m extra careful with the balls, since men differ greatly when it comes to what kind of touch they like. Some are more sensitive, so I ask how you like them touched before I start.

I’ll then move my delicate touch up to your penis. Once I’ve teased all around it and left you begging me for more, I’ll start working the shaft of the penis. Again, I’ve got plenty of techniques to use, from gentle to hard, and I vary my stroke sequences between straight up and down and a twisting motion. This makes sure you never quite get used to what I’m doing, and it always feels like a new, intense sensation.

I vary the action from one to two hands, frequently switching it up. Starting slowly and building up to a faster pace, I then take it back down to a slow speed again. You’ll experience a whole range of pressures, speeds, rhythms, and methods like you’ve never had before. From the root of the shaft all the way up to the head, you’ll feel my sensuous touch all over.

When using two hands, I can use a few different techniques:

  1. Both hands hold the penis in the same direction with the fingers pointing the same way.
  2. One hand holds the penis facing one way and the other hand faces the other way.
  3. Both hands move up and down at the same time. Oil is your friend here, as it helps create a smoother, gliding motion.
  4. The bottom hand moves up and down while the top hand performs a swirling/twisting action at the tip of the penis.


However, I don’t let you climax- Tantra is about keeping you at the very edge of orgasm. By now, you’ll likely be very worked up, and might want to climax. By paying close attention to your breathing, how your body is moving, and your moaning, I can tell just how near you are to orgasming. When I see you have reached that edge, I pull back on what I am doing, or slow it right down. I remind you to breathe and ride the wave of orgasmic feelings that you are experiencing. That way, I can draw out the pleasure, and when you do reach the ending, it will be all the more satisfying. You may go from being rock hard to semi-hard- don’t worry, that’s what’s supposed to happen!


8- End the massage.

To end the massage, I will allow you to finally ejaculate. After so much teasing and tugging, I know that you’ll be eager to orgasm, and you’ll feel wave upon wave of pleasure filling every inch of your body.


If you’d like to see for yourself what this sort of massage involves, then just search for videos of Lingam massages online. If you find a particularly good video, then please do let me know- I’ll put a link to it on my website to share with others. Below, you’ll find some links that I’ve already come up with for your visual satisfaction.

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Usually, sessions are finished in around an hour and fifty minutes. Since the session is booked for two hours, we will have a little extra time, so that you don’t feel rushed. That means there’s a chance to caress, cuddle, chat, take a shower, and so on.


I’ve summarized the session below:


Breathe together (Bliss breath)- 5 minutes

Kegel exercises- 5 minutes

Then, a Swedish deep sportive massage- 30-40 minutes

scratch and pressure massage- 10 minutes

Stimulate the sacred spot externally- 10 minutes

Lingam massage and nipple teasing-  40 minutes


According to my experiences, my session is especially suitable if the following applies to you:

  • You have already had a Tantric experience, and are eager for more.
  • You are over 45 years old. I do not arrange the session if you are younger.
  • You do not have any health and skin issues like eczema, fungus, wart and so on.
  • You want to relieve the stresses of your daily life with a mix of a relaxing therapeutic massage and a happy ending.
  • You like the experience of being pampered and worshiped by a beautiful woman.
  • You are a shy person who feels insecure with women- my sessions are a great way to become more familiar and comfortable with women, and not be afraid of even the deepest intimacy.
  • Teasing and denial is one of your sexual fetishes.
  • You are jetlagged, or have been having trouble sleeping recently.
  • You love the feeling of relief that comes with a satisfying handjob.
  • You have a submissive and you like to be passive during the session.
  • You have experienced erectile dysfunction in the past.